Our baby girl was set to arrive on Friday, April 24. My
pregnancy had been without any trouble except the usual suspects of nausea
(which lasted most of the 40 weeks, but was put under control by a combination
of B6 & Unisom every night), being tired & feeling large & in
charge. We had decided to schedule a C-section as it seemed the safest &
most predictable option (Keller had been an emergency C section). I was
petrified Chad would be traveling for work as the time of delivery arrived
& I would have no one here at our new home in Austin. Also – my Mom &
Kimmy wanted to be here shortly after her arrival so a scheduled C-section was
set.
My great friend Liz Wallis (from my work days at SUU) came
to Austin (she now lives in Dallas) on Thursday, April 23 to help out shuffling
Keller from school & to be here when Grandma & Kimmy arrived. I was set
to check-in at the hospital at 10AM for a 12PM surgery slot with Dr. Mikaela
Rush. About 9AM that morning I decided to have a quick piece of toast &
small sip of juice to settle my stomach (having no real pre-op paperwork
advising against eating or drinking). Chad & I arrived at Cedar Park
Regional Medical Center – just 5 minutes from our house – at 10AM & the
nurses quickly got to setting us up. I was asked if I had anything to eat or
drink after midnight. Shyly I mentioned I had a small piece of toast. All work
immediately was halted as Dr. Rush & the anesthesiologist were called.
Apparently this was a big NO – NO. I didn’t know. I was a little taken back
& tried to hold it together as calls were placed back & forth between
doctors & nurses. Dr. Rush actually came in between surgeries & had
initially thought we would have to re-schedule for the following Wednesday (5
days away). I was now near tears & trying to hold it together. Chad & I
were so excited to meet this baby. This was horrible!
After about an hour, Dr. Rush came back to my room &
explained she was able to re-arrange her schedule for the evening & the anesthesiologist
had given the green light for a 4PM C-section. I now cried tears of joy &
thanked her over & over again. And then … we waited. It was only 12PM so we
had a long stretch of time to read, nap & watch TV to pass the time.
At 3:30PM, my nurse, Katherine, came in & started the
final preparations to take me to the operating room. Chad put on his scrubs
& just before 4PM I walked into the operating room. This was a much
different C-section from when I had Keller because that was fast & a bit
scary. This was calm, smooth & I was much more aware of what was happening.
I sat on the table while the anesthesiologist put in my spinal block. Chad was
waiting patiently just outside the OR until I was set. I was then laid down on
the table & final preps were made. As Chad came in, my heartrate dropped
suddenly & I had to be given a shot in my IV to stabilize. Everyone &
everything was set & a final check was done before the procedure began.
Chad sat by my head & talked to me. We talked about our excitement to meet
our baby, how big or small she would be. In just a few moments time we heard
the doctors counting, “1, 2, 3, 4 ….”. We didn’t know what to expect – Was this
the sign that we would hear a cry? And then … We did hear it! Our baby girl was
here. They immediately took her to a corner of the OR to the warming bed to
perk her up & check her vitals. Tears of happiness from both Chad & I
as our wait was over. In the midst of all the commotion I heard the doctors
& nurses say that the baby’s cord has been loosely wrapped around her neck
4 times (thus the counting) & there had also been a true knot in the cord.
How amazingly grateful I was we were able to get her out today & to us
safely!
Just a few minutes after her arrival Chad was able to go see
her in the warming bed & comfort her. He came back to me with details that
she was perfect & had lots of dark hair. I was shocked – Keller had no hair
at birth so I was surprised. A few minutes later, they wrapped her up &
handed her to her Daddy. He was able to come sit right by my side as the
operation was completed. I did have an adverse reaction to all the surgery
& threw up just before I was able to really see her. She was beautiful
& looked tiny in her Daddy’s arms.
Shortly after, the nursery nurse & Chad took our baby
girl to the recovery room while the surgery was completed. I was then taken to
the recovery room where they were bathing the baby & I was stabilized.
After just a few moments I was able to hold her. Oh how wonderful it felt to
have someone so little & longed for finally in my arms. We ooh’ed &
ahh’ed over her tiny features, little feet & long fingers &
fingernails. We were in the recovery room for about an hour & a half before
being able to be released to the maternity floor.
Immediately after being moved to our room, we were joined by
Keller, Grandma, Kimmy & Liz who had been excitedly waiting all afternoon.
I was holding the baby as they entered the room. Keller immediately came over
to the bed & looked over at her. I was introducing him to his baby sister
& tears just streamed down his face as he had been waiting for not just
days & weeks, but years to have a sibling. It was a special, special
moment.
Our sweet girl was shuttled from friend to friend as she met
everyone. It was when she was in Kimmy’s arms that we finally shared her
special name – Lauren Dawn Marchant. Lauren had been on our ‘favorite girl
names’ list & we felt for weeks that was her name, but needed to see &
hold her just to make sure. Her middle name of Dawn actually comes from Kimmy’s
middle name, also being Dawn. My middle name, Lynn, is after my Mom’s best
friend so it only seemed fitting to carry on this family tradition.
Lauren was born on a Friday & we were released from the
hospital on Sunday. We were greeted at home by Grandma & Kimmy. The next
few days were filled with lots of baby snuggles. Lauren slept & slept &
slept. Chad really wished she was more awake to ‘play’. Kimmy flew back home on
Monday & Grandma was able to stay for a whole week. She was a huge help
holding Lauren lots & lots and loading the freezer with meals.
It truly felt like a magical experience having a baby again
in our home & our lives. We have waited & waited with a few heartbreaks
& struggles along the way. Welcome to our family Lauren.
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